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Welcome to Soft Black Girl Club—A Community Where Black Women Thrive.

Empowering, uplifting, and celebrating the soft power of Black women through wellness, personal growth, and connection.

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Soft Girls Love Day Parties Too — and we’re outsideee!

Presented by SociaLight & The Soft Black Girl Club Inc., this is the softest day party Charlotte’s ever seen — and it’s only right we celebrate 2 years of softness, sisterhood, and showing up for ourselves the way we do best: in style.

Join us on Sunday, May 18th for an exclusive pre-party ahead of our official anniversary event on May 24th!

Here’s what’s on the soft girl menu:
• A custom drink selection that tastes like luxury and looks like a photo opp 🍸
• Vibes curated by a fire DJ 🎶
• Delicious bites to keep you dancing 🍽️
• Hookah for the girls who like to lounge and unwind 💨
• FREE parking because convenience is key 🅿️
• A few surprise moments and giveaways (because…we love a treat) ✨

Dress Code: Soft but Outside
Think: chocolate, baby pink, nude/ivory tones — anything that makes you feel effortlessly soft and still that girl 💅🏽.

This event is for the healing girls, the confident girls, the shy girls, the girls still figuring it out — and of course, all the soft babes who just wanna vibe, feel good, and celebrate softness out loud 💖

Tickets are limited and in our bio— so don’t wait. Secure your spot and come ready to vibe.

May 18th. Meet us there.

#SoftGirlsLoveDayPartiesToo #SoftBlackGirlClub #SociaLightCLT #SoftLifeEra #2YearsofSoftness #CharlotteEvents #DayPartyWithPurpose #OutsideButSoft

Soft Girls Love Day Parties Too — and we’re outsideee!

Presented by SociaLight & The Soft Black Girl Club Inc., this is the softest day party Charlotte’s ever seen — and it’s only right we celebrate 2 years of softness, sisterhood, and showing up for ourselves the way we do best: in style.

Join us on Sunday, May 18th for an exclusive pre-party ahead of our official anniversary event on May 24th!

Here’s what’s on the soft girl menu:
• A custom drink selection that tastes like luxury and looks like a photo opp 🍸
• Vibes curated by a fire DJ 🎶
• Delicious bites to keep you dancing 🍽️
• Hookah for the girls who like to lounge and unwind 💨
• FREE parking because convenience is key 🅿️
• A few surprise moments and giveaways (because…we love a treat) ✨

Dress Code: Soft but Outside
Think: chocolate, baby pink, nude/ivory tones — anything that makes you feel effortlessly soft and still that girl 💅🏽.

This event is for the healing girls, the confident girls, the shy girls, the girls still figuring it out — and of course, all the soft babes who just wanna vibe, feel good, and celebrate softness out loud 💖

Tickets are limited and in our bio— so don’t wait. Secure your spot and come ready to vibe.

May 18th. Meet us there.

#SoftGirlsLoveDayPartiesToo #SoftBlackGirlClub #SociaLightCLT #SoftLifeEra #2YearsofSoftness #CharlotteEvents #DayPartyWithPurpose #OutsideButSoft

We’re officially inviting you to experience the softness—up close and in real life.

Join us on May 24th, 2025 for A Tini Bit Softer—our 2-Year Anniversary celebration, where the vibes are luxurious, the energy is effortless, and the only thing more iconic than the decor… is the sisterhood.

This isn’t just an event—it’s a curated space for joy, beauty, and belonging. A place where soft glam meets deep connection. Where the playlist flows, the martinis are shaken just right, and every guest leaves feeling lighter, brighter, and celebrated.

Whether you’re a long-time member of the Soft Black Girl Club or you’ve just been vibing from afar—this night is for you.
You don’t need a membership to attend. Just bring your softness, your sparkle, and your favorite girls.

We’re creating the kind of night people will talk about. And the only thing better than being there is being able to say you were.

Let’s toast to softness, style, and another year of showing up as our most radiant selves.

Tickets on sale now in bio.
All are welcome.
Let’s get soft.

#ATiniBitSofter #SoftBlackGirlClub #LuxuryInRealLife #SoftGirlsUnite #ForTheGirlsByTheGirls

We’re officially inviting you to experience the softness—up close and in real life.

Join us on May 24th, 2025 for A Tini Bit Softer—our 2-Year Anniversary celebration, where the vibes are luxurious, the energy is effortless, and the only thing more iconic than the decor… is the sisterhood.

This isn’t just an event—it’s a curated space for joy, beauty, and belonging. A place where soft glam meets deep connection. Where the playlist flows, the martinis are shaken just right, and every guest leaves feeling lighter, brighter, and celebrated.

Whether you’re a long-time member of the Soft Black Girl Club or you’ve just been vibing from afar—this night is for you.
You don’t need a membership to attend. Just bring your softness, your sparkle, and your favorite girls.

We’re creating the kind of night people will talk about. And the only thing better than being there is being able to say you were.

Let’s toast to softness, style, and another year of showing up as our most radiant selves.

Tickets on sale now in bio.
All are welcome.
Let’s get soft.

#ATiniBitSofter #SoftBlackGirlClub #LuxuryInRealLife #SoftGirlsUnite #ForTheGirlsByTheGirls

Soft Girls Serve — and we did just that! ✨
This morning, our SBGC crew showed up with good energy and soft vibes to help keep Charlotte looking beautiful. From picking up trash to connecting with community, it was all love.

Huge thanks to @kcb_clt and @railtrailclt and @southendclt for hosting such a meaningful cleanup!

Want to join the next one?
April 19th | 10 AM | New Bern Station, Southend
Let’s keep showing up for the city we love — one cleanup at a time.

#SoftGirlsServe #SBGC #KeepCharlotteClean #RailTrailCLT
♻️ Soft hearts. Clean streets. Beautiful impact. ✨

Soft Girls Serve — and we did just that! ✨
This morning, our SBGC crew showed up with good energy and soft vibes to help keep Charlotte looking beautiful. From picking up trash to connecting with community, it was all love.

Huge thanks to @kcb_clt and @railtrailclt and @southendclt for hosting such a meaningful cleanup!

Want to join the next one?
April 19th | 10 AM | New Bern Station, Southend
Let’s keep showing up for the city we love — one cleanup at a time.

#SoftGirlsServe #SBGC #KeepCharlotteClean #RailTrailCLT
♻️ Soft hearts. Clean streets. Beautiful impact. ✨

✨ Soft Black Girl’s Guide to Dating: No More Settling ✨

Let’s be real, sis—settling isn’t love, it’s self-betrayal. Too many of us have been in situations where we convince ourselves to stay, hoping that effort will magically appear, potential will finally evolve, or that “one day” things will be different. But here’s the truth:

🚩 If you’re constantly confused, the answer is NO.
🚩 If you feel like you’re begging for the bare minimum, it’s NOT love.
🚩 If they keep “needing time” but love the attention, LET THEM GO.

Because the right love? It’s clear. It’s consistent. It’s safe.

Let’s break it down:

💡 1. The Bare Minimum is NOT a Prize
We’ve got to stop hyping up things that should be basic.
❌ “He finally texted back” ≠ effort
❌ “He posts me on his story” ≠ real commitment
❌ “He said sorry but didn’t change” ≠ growth
🔥 You are not asking for too much. You’re just asking the wrong person.

💡 2. Energy Matching 101
Stop over-giving to people who show up half-heartedly.
✅ If they take hours to reply, you don’t need to respond in minutes.
✅ If they don’t plan dates, stop suggesting them.
✅ If they don’t show consistency, stop being overly available.
Your effort should match theirs—NOT exceed it.

💡 3. How to Stop Attracting Bare Minimum Energy
✨ Date with standards, not fear—stop entertaining people just because you’re lonely.
✨ Set boundaries, then stick to them—if they cross them once, they’ll do it again.
✨ Stop over-explaining yourself—the right person won’t need a PowerPoint on how to treat you.
✨ Walk away when needed—the best reaction to inconsistency is distance.

💡 4. What Happens When You Walk Away?
💖 Your energy shifts.
💖 You attract better connections.
💖 You stop feeling anxious about love.
💖 You realize you are the prize.

Because at the end of the day, the right love won’t require you to shrink yourself. It won’t make you question your worth. It won’t drain you. It will feel like home.

💬 Tag a friend who needs this reminder!
💌 Save this post for when you need it!
🔥 Drop a “🔥” if you’re DONE settling!

🔗 Join @thesoftblackgirlclub for more real talk. 💕 #SoftBlackGirl #NoMoreSettling #DateWithStandards #SoftLifeDating

✨ Soft Black Girl’s Guide to Dating: No More Settling ✨

Let’s be real, sis—settling isn’t love, it’s self-betrayal. Too many of us have been in situations where we convince ourselves to stay, hoping that effort will magically appear, potential will finally evolve, or that “one day” things will be different. But here’s the truth:

🚩 If you’re constantly confused, the answer is NO.
🚩 If you feel like you’re begging for the bare minimum, it’s NOT love.
🚩 If they keep “needing time” but love the attention, LET THEM GO.

Because the right love? It’s clear. It’s consistent. It’s safe.

Let’s break it down:

💡 1. The Bare Minimum is NOT a Prize
We’ve got to stop hyping up things that should be basic.
❌ “He finally texted back” ≠ effort
❌ “He posts me on his story” ≠ real commitment
❌ “He said sorry but didn’t change” ≠ growth
🔥 You are not asking for too much. You’re just asking the wrong person.

💡 2. Energy Matching 101
Stop over-giving to people who show up half-heartedly.
✅ If they take hours to reply, you don’t need to respond in minutes.
✅ If they don’t plan dates, stop suggesting them.
✅ If they don’t show consistency, stop being overly available.
Your effort should match theirs—NOT exceed it.

💡 3. How to Stop Attracting Bare Minimum Energy
✨ Date with standards, not fear—stop entertaining people just because you’re lonely.
✨ Set boundaries, then stick to them—if they cross them once, they’ll do it again.
✨ Stop over-explaining yourself—the right person won’t need a PowerPoint on how to treat you.
✨ Walk away when needed—the best reaction to inconsistency is distance.

💡 4. What Happens When You Walk Away?
💖 Your energy shifts.
💖 You attract better connections.
💖 You stop feeling anxious about love.
💖 You realize you are the prize.

Because at the end of the day, the right love won’t require you to shrink yourself. It won’t make you question your worth. It won’t drain you. It will feel like home.

💬 Tag a friend who needs this reminder!
💌 Save this post for when you need it!
🔥 Drop a “🔥” if you’re DONE settling!

🔗 Join @thesoftblackgirlclub for more real talk. 💕 #SoftBlackGirl #NoMoreSettling #DateWithStandards #SoftLifeDating

The Soft Life Blueprint with @deandrakanu ✨💡🤩

The Soft Life Blueprint with @deandrakanu ✨💡🤩

The Girls Room: A Night to Remember ✨💖

Pure magic happened at The Girls Room—a space filled with love, laughter, and sisterhood. From the unforgettable vibes to the powerful connections made, this was more than just an event—it was a movement.

A huge thank you to everyone who made this night possible! To our sponsors, partners, and every soft Black girl who showed up and showed out—you are the heart of this community. Your presence, energy, and support made this a truly special experience.

Special shoutout to all of the businesses and partnerships that made this happen:

Venue: @queenparksocial
Photo Booth: @poseitupclt
Cookies: @bakedbyciera
Charcuterie Boards: @kass.kitchenclt
Rideshare Partner: @justherride
DJ: @djpers3vere / @djbyrdie
Perfume Bar: @zeninajar
Pajama Sponsor: @xzood_sleepwear
Videography: @feltonsarcphotography
@troodieapp & @petals.andpastries

Giveaway Sponsors: @myedenmedspa @beem.southend.clt @hotworxmatthews

Gift Sponsors: @athenaclub @getgorgie

We’re just getting started. See you at the next one! 💕 #TheGirlsRoom #SoftBlackGirlClub #ReclaimingSoftness

The Girls Room: A Night to Remember ✨💖

Pure magic happened at The Girls Room—a space filled with love, laughter, and sisterhood. From the unforgettable vibes to the powerful connections made, this was more than just an event—it was a movement.

A huge thank you to everyone who made this night possible! To our sponsors, partners, and every soft Black girl who showed up and showed out—you are the heart of this community. Your presence, energy, and support made this a truly special experience.

Special shoutout to all of the businesses and partnerships that made this happen:

Venue: @queenparksocial
Photo Booth: @poseitupclt
Cookies: @bakedbyciera
Charcuterie Boards: @kass.kitchenclt
Rideshare Partner: @justherride
DJ: @djpers3vere / @djbyrdie
Perfume Bar: @zeninajar
Pajama Sponsor: @xzood_sleepwear
Videography: @feltonsarcphotography
@troodieapp & @petals.andpastries

Giveaway Sponsors: @myedenmedspa @beem.southend.clt @hotworxmatthews

Gift Sponsors: @athenaclub @getgorgie

We’re just getting started. See you at the next one! 💕 #TheGirlsRoom #SoftBlackGirlClub #ReclaimingSoftness

Soft Black Girl’s Guide to Dealing with Social Anxiety ✨🌿

If you’ve ever felt your heart race before walking into a crowded room or overanalyzed everything you said after a conversation—this one’s for you.

Social anxiety is real, and it’s not just about being shy. It’s the overwhelming feeling of being judged, saying the wrong thing, or just not knowing how to exist comfortably in group settings. And let’s be real—when you’re a soft Black girl navigating spaces that aren’t always designed for you, that anxiety can hit even harder.

But here’s the truth: you belong in every room you enter. Your presence is valuable. You don’t have to shrink, over-explain, or exhaust yourself trying to “perform” in social settings.

Swipe through for real, practical strategies to help you feel more comfortable in groups—because avoiding social settings forever isn’t the answer. 🌸

🌿 Save this for later when you need a reminder
💬 Comment a “✨” if social anxiety is something you’re working through
👯‍♀️ Tag a friend who needs to see this!

#SoftBlackGirl #SocialAnxietyTips #HealingInCommunity #BlackGirlSelfCare

Soft Black Girl’s Guide to Dealing with Social Anxiety ✨🌿

If you’ve ever felt your heart race before walking into a crowded room or overanalyzed everything you said after a conversation—this one’s for you.

Social anxiety is real, and it’s not just about being shy. It’s the overwhelming feeling of being judged, saying the wrong thing, or just not knowing how to exist comfortably in group settings. And let’s be real—when you’re a soft Black girl navigating spaces that aren’t always designed for you, that anxiety can hit even harder.

But here’s the truth: you belong in every room you enter. Your presence is valuable. You don’t have to shrink, over-explain, or exhaust yourself trying to “perform” in social settings.

Swipe through for real, practical strategies to help you feel more comfortable in groups—because avoiding social settings forever isn’t the answer. 🌸

🌿 Save this for later when you need a reminder
💬 Comment a “✨” if social anxiety is something you’re working through
👯‍♀️ Tag a friend who needs to see this!

#SoftBlackGirl #SocialAnxietyTips #HealingInCommunity #BlackGirlSelfCare

✨ The Soft Life Blueprint Masterclass ✨ is your key to stepping into the elevated, effortless lifestyle you deserve!

Join us LIVE on Instagram on March 12th at 6:30 PM EST | 5:30 PM CST | 3:30 PM PST for an empowering conversation presented by The Soft Black Girl Club, featuring the incredible Deandra Kanu!

This masterclass is all about:
✨ Elevating your mindset and confidence
✨ Letting go of the struggle mindset and embracing ease
✨ Designing a life that aligns with your vision of luxury and fulfillment
✨ Surrounding yourself with a community that uplifts and inspires

No gatekeeping here—this is a conversation you need to be part of! Drop a few questions below as well that you want answered. Tag your girls, turn on your post notifications, and be ready to tap in. We can’t wait to see you there!

#SoftLifeBlueprint #SoftBlackGirlClub #ReclaimingSoftness

✨ The Soft Life Blueprint Masterclass ✨ is your key to stepping into the elevated, effortless lifestyle you deserve!

Join us LIVE on Instagram on March 12th at 6:30 PM EST | 5:30 PM CST | 3:30 PM PST for an empowering conversation presented by The Soft Black Girl Club, featuring the incredible Deandra Kanu!

This masterclass is all about:
✨ Elevating your mindset and confidence
✨ Letting go of the struggle mindset and embracing ease
✨ Designing a life that aligns with your vision of luxury and fulfillment
✨ Surrounding yourself with a community that uplifts and inspires

No gatekeeping here—this is a conversation you need to be part of! Drop a few questions below as well that you want answered. Tag your girls, turn on your post notifications, and be ready to tap in. We can’t wait to see you there!

#SoftLifeBlueprint #SoftBlackGirlClub #ReclaimingSoftness

Soft moments, deep conversations, and the sweetest vibes. ☕✨💖 Our Spill the Tea Party at A Cause for Tea was a beautiful reminder of what happens when Black women come together in a space designed just for us. From pouring into each other to sharing laughs over the perfect cup, every moment was pure magic.

If you missed this one, don’t worry—there’s always more softness to come. Until next time, keep sipping, spilling, and showing up for your sisters. 💕🫖

Tag someone who needs to be at the next one! #SpillTheTeaParty #SoftBlackGirlClub #TeaTimeAndSisterhood

Soft moments, deep conversations, and the sweetest vibes. ☕✨💖 Our Spill the Tea Party at A Cause for Tea was a beautiful reminder of what happens when Black women come together in a space designed just for us. From pouring into each other to sharing laughs over the perfect cup, every moment was pure magic.

If you missed this one, don’t worry—there’s always more softness to come. Until next time, keep sipping, spilling, and showing up for your sisters. 💕🫖

Tag someone who needs to be at the next one! #SpillTheTeaParty #SoftBlackGirlClub #TeaTimeAndSisterhood

Today was a whole vibe! ☕✨ The Soft Black Girl Club took over A Cause for Tea for our Spill the Tea Party, and it was nothing short of magical. From deep convos to contagious laughter, every sip came with a side of sisterhood.

We spilled tea (literally and figuratively), made beautiful connections, and created memories in the softest, most welcoming space. Huge thank you to everyone who joined us—your presence made it even more special. 💕

Already counting down until we do it again! Drop your favorite moment below. ⬇️ #SpillTheTeaParty #SoftBlackGirlClub #TeaTimeAndSisterhood

Today was a whole vibe! ☕✨ The Soft Black Girl Club took over A Cause for Tea for our Spill the Tea Party, and it was nothing short of magical. From deep convos to contagious laughter, every sip came with a side of sisterhood.

We spilled tea (literally and figuratively), made beautiful connections, and created memories in the softest, most welcoming space. Huge thank you to everyone who joined us—your presence made it even more special. 💕

Already counting down until we do it again! Drop your favorite moment below. ⬇️ #SpillTheTeaParty #SoftBlackGirlClub #TeaTimeAndSisterhood

Oh snap! In my best Raven Baxter voice—The Girls Room was a BLAST! ✨

Imagine a girls’ night where the vibes were unmatched, the convos were top-tier, and the laughs were endless. We talked, we laughed until we cried, we hyped each other up like we were about to step onto the biggest stage of our lives—because that’s just what happens when you get a room full of soft babes together. The energy was giving you had to be there, and trust me, you wanted to be there. A night full of sisterhood, inside jokes, and the kind of moments that remind you why being around your people just hits different. Same time next time? Because we might just make this a tradition. 💖✨ #TheGirlsRoom #GirlsNightVibes #SoftBlackGirlClub

Oh snap! In my best Raven Baxter voice—The Girls Room was a BLAST! ✨

Imagine a girls’ night where the vibes were unmatched, the convos were top-tier, and the laughs were endless. We talked, we laughed until we cried, we hyped each other up like we were about to step onto the biggest stage of our lives—because that’s just what happens when you get a room full of soft babes together. The energy was giving you had to be there, and trust me, you wanted to be there. A night full of sisterhood, inside jokes, and the kind of moments that remind you why being around your people just hits different. Same time next time? Because we might just make this a tradition. 💖✨ #TheGirlsRoom #GirlsNightVibes #SoftBlackGirlClub

✨ Soft Life Blueprint: Elevate with Deandra Kanu ✨

Sis, we need to talk about elevation. Soft life isn’t just about aesthetics—it’s about moving with intention, creating ease, and stepping into the opportunities that are meant for you. But how do you actually do that? How do you shift your mindset, attract what aligns with you, and stop settling for struggle?

We’re sitting down with Deandra Kanu (@deandrakanu )—TV personality, influencer, and ultimate soft life muse—to get into all of it. You may know her from The Bachelor, but beyond the cameras, Deandra has mastered the art of self-worth, confidence, and making life work for her—not the other way around. She’s sharing real gems on how to elevate, set standards, and start moving differently so that ease and abundance flow naturally.

This IG Live is completely open to the public, so bring your questions, take notes, and get ready for a conversation that just might change the way you approach life. ✨

📅 March 12 at 6:30 PM
📍 LIVE on Instagram
🔗 RSVP now at the link in our bio!

Tag your girls, set your reminders, and come ready to elevate! #SoftLifeBlueprint #ReclaimingSoftness #LevelUpWithEase

✨ Soft Life Blueprint: Elevate with Deandra Kanu ✨

Sis, we need to talk about elevation. Soft life isn’t just about aesthetics—it’s about moving with intention, creating ease, and stepping into the opportunities that are meant for you. But how do you actually do that? How do you shift your mindset, attract what aligns with you, and stop settling for struggle?

We’re sitting down with Deandra Kanu (@deandrakanu )—TV personality, influencer, and ultimate soft life muse—to get into all of it. You may know her from The Bachelor, but beyond the cameras, Deandra has mastered the art of self-worth, confidence, and making life work for her—not the other way around. She’s sharing real gems on how to elevate, set standards, and start moving differently so that ease and abundance flow naturally.

This IG Live is completely open to the public, so bring your questions, take notes, and get ready for a conversation that just might change the way you approach life. ✨

📅 March 12 at 6:30 PM
📍 LIVE on Instagram
🔗 RSVP now at the link in our bio!

Tag your girls, set your reminders, and come ready to elevate! #SoftLifeBlueprint #ReclaimingSoftness #LevelUpWithEase

Pt. 2 of Pictures that were printed on cookies! 💕

Thank you @bakedbyciera

Pt. 2 of Pictures that were printed on cookies! 💕

Thank you @bakedbyciera

Part 1: Our Cookie Prints from The Girls Room ✨💋

Thank you to @bakedbyciera 💕

Part 1: Our Cookie Prints from The Girls Room ✨💋

Thank you to @bakedbyciera 💕

March is bringing all the softness and community you need! 💕

We’ve got a lineup of events designed to pour into you, connect you with like-minded women, and give back in a meaningful way. Mark your calendars and get ready!

🍵 March 1st – Spill the Tea Tea Party (Members Only)
An intimate gathering for our members to sip, connect, and spill (in the softest way, of course). Come ready for good vibes, great conversation, and a space to be fully yourself. ☕✨

💻 March 12th – The Soft Life Blueprint w/ @deandrakanu (Open to the Public on IG Live)
Join us for an exclusive conversation on embracing softness, ease, and alignment in your everyday life. @deandrakanu is sharing her gems on curating a lifestyle that feels good, inside and out. Tap in on IG Live—you don’t want to miss this! 💕

🤝 March 22nd – Community Service Day (Members Only)
Giving back is a soft girl essential, and we’re showing up for our community in a real way. Members, get ready to make an impact together! More details coming soon.

Tag your girls, save the dates, and let us know which event you’re most excited for! #SoftBlackGirlClub #ReclaimingSoftness

March is bringing all the softness and community you need! 💕

We’ve got a lineup of events designed to pour into you, connect you with like-minded women, and give back in a meaningful way. Mark your calendars and get ready!

🍵 March 1st – Spill the Tea Tea Party (Members Only)
An intimate gathering for our members to sip, connect, and spill (in the softest way, of course). Come ready for good vibes, great conversation, and a space to be fully yourself. ☕✨

💻 March 12th – The Soft Life Blueprint w/ @deandrakanu (Open to the Public on IG Live)
Join us for an exclusive conversation on embracing softness, ease, and alignment in your everyday life. @deandrakanu is sharing her gems on curating a lifestyle that feels good, inside and out. Tap in on IG Live—you don’t want to miss this! 💕

🤝 March 22nd – Community Service Day (Members Only)
Giving back is a soft girl essential, and we’re showing up for our community in a real way. Members, get ready to make an impact together! More details coming soon.

Tag your girls, save the dates, and let us know which event you’re most excited for! #SoftBlackGirlClub #ReclaimingSoftness

The Girls Room Giveaway Winners ❤️

Huge thank you to @myedenmedspa , @beem.southend.clt and @hotworxmatthews 💕

The Girls Room Giveaway Winners ❤️

Huge thank you to @myedenmedspa , @beem.southend.clt and @hotworxmatthews 💕

We had an absolute blast yesterday, and we’re keeping the fun going! Join us TODAY at 4 PM as we go LIVE to announce our giveaway winners! Here’s what’s up for grabs:

✨ Free Facial from Eden Med Spa
✨ Free Week of Membership at Hotworx Matthews
✨ 6 Infrared Sauna & Red Light Sessions ($400 value!)

You don’t want to miss this!

We had an absolute blast yesterday, and we’re keeping the fun going! Join us TODAY at 4 PM as we go LIVE to announce our giveaway winners! Here’s what’s up for grabs:

✨ Free Facial from Eden Med Spa
✨ Free Week of Membership at Hotworx Matthews
✨ 6 Infrared Sauna & Red Light Sessions ($400 value!)

You don’t want to miss this!

Sip, shine, and celebrate! ✨ We’re so excited to have Gorgie as a sponsor for our Galentine’s event tomorrow! Because what’s a night of love, laughter, and sisterhood without a little extra energy and glow?

Gorgie isn’t just an energy drink—it’s a whole vibe. A boost that keeps you feeling good, looking good, and showing up as your best self. So get ready to toast to friendship, sip on something fabulous, and keep your energy just as vibrant as your spirit! 💖🥂 @getgorgie

Tag your girls and let them know—it’s going to be a GORGIE-ous night! #SoftBlackGirlClub #SipWithGorgie #GalentinesGlow #FueledByGorgie

Sip, shine, and celebrate! ✨ We’re so excited to have Gorgie as a sponsor for our Galentine’s event tomorrow! Because what’s a night of love, laughter, and sisterhood without a little extra energy and glow?

Gorgie isn’t just an energy drink—it’s a whole vibe. A boost that keeps you feeling good, looking good, and showing up as your best self. So get ready to toast to friendship, sip on something fabulous, and keep your energy just as vibrant as your spirit! 💖🥂 @getgorgie

Tag your girls and let them know—it’s going to be a GORGIE-ous night! #SoftBlackGirlClub #SipWithGorgie #GalentinesGlow #FueledByGorgie

Softness is a lifestyle, and @athenaclub is making sure our Galentine’s Event guests experience it firsthand! ✨ We�’re beyond grateful to have Athena Club as a sponsor, providing their luxe self-care essentials for our gift bags. Because every soft Black girl deserves high-quality, feel-good products that make everyday routines a little more special. 💕

A huge thank you to @athenaclub for supporting our mission of softness, sisterhood, and self-care. Our guests are in for a treat!

#GalentinesWithSBGC #SoftBlackGirls #AthenaClub #SelfCareIsSoft #LuxuryInTheLittleThings

Softness is a lifestyle, and @athenaclub is making sure our Galentine’s Event guests experience it firsthand! ✨ We’re beyond grateful to have Athena Club as a sponsor, providing their luxe self-care essentials for our gift bags. Because every soft Black girl deserves high-quality, feel-good products that make everyday routines a little more special. 💕

A huge thank you to @athenaclub for supporting our mission of softness, sisterhood, and self-care. Our guests are in for a treat!

#GalentinesWithSBGC #SoftBlackGirls #AthenaClub #SelfCareIsSoft #LuxuryInTheLittleThings

Love is in the air—and on our plates! A huge shoutout to @kass.kitchenCLT for their generous donation of the most stunning (and delicious) charcuterie boards for our Galentine’s Event this Saturday! Because what’s a celebration of sisterhood without a beautifully curated spread of sweet and savory bites? We’re so grateful for your support in making this gathering extra special, giving our guests a taste of luxury while they connect, laugh, and celebrate softness together. ✨💕

If you’re looking for a show-stopping charcuterie experience in Charlotte, @kass.kitchenCLT is the one to call!

#GalentinesWithSBGC #SoftBlackGirls #CharcuterieLove #KassKitchenCLT #GoodFoodGoodVibes

Love is in the air—and on our plates! A huge shoutout to @kass.kitchenCLT for their generous donation of the most stunning (and delicious) charcuterie boards for our Galentine’s Event this Saturday! Because what’s a celebration of sisterhood without a beautifully curated spread of sweet and savory bites? We’re so grateful for your support in making this gathering extra special, giving our guests a taste of luxury while they connect, laugh, and celebrate softness together. ✨💕

If you’re looking for a show-stopping charcuterie experience in Charlotte, @kass.kitchenCLT is the one to call!

#GalentinesWithSBGC #SoftBlackGirls #CharcuterieLove #KassKitchenCLT #GoodFoodGoodVibes

Unboxing the Ultimate Soft Girl Starter Kit! 💕📦✨

Our new members just got their Soft Black Girl Club Welcome Boxes, and we are OBSESSED! 😍 From self-care must-haves to exclusive SBGC perks, we’re making sure every soft babe feels welcomed and celebrated from day one.

Inside each box, our members receive specially curated goodies, including treats from Black-owned brands, fun SBGC essentials, and a little something to remind them that living softly is their birthright. 💖

This is more than a membership—it’s a movement. A space where Black women can embrace ease, joy, and sisterhood without explanation. And guess what? We want YOU to be a part of it!

✨ Wanna join the sisterhood? Comment “soft girl” below, and we’ll DM you the link to our interest form! Let’s grow, glow, and reclaim softness together. 💕

#SoftBlackGirlClub #WelcomeBoxUnboxing #SoftLife #BlackGirlLuxury #SBGC #SoftGirlEra

Unboxing the Ultimate Soft Girl Starter Kit! 💕📦✨

Our new members just got their Soft Black Girl Club Welcome Boxes, and we are OBSESSED! 😍 From self-care must-haves to exclusive SBGC perks, we’re making sure every soft babe feels welcomed and celebrated from day one.

Inside each box, our members receive specially curated goodies, including treats from Black-owned brands, fun SBGC essentials, and a little something to remind them that living softly is their birthright. 💖

This is more than a membership—it’s a movement. A space where Black women can embrace ease, joy, and sisterhood without explanation. And guess what? We want YOU to be a part of it!

✨ Wanna join the sisterhood? Comment “soft girl” below, and we’ll DM you the link to our interest form! Let’s grow, glow, and reclaim softness together. 💕

#SoftBlackGirlClub #WelcomeBoxUnboxing #SoftLife #BlackGirlLuxury #SBGC #SoftGirlEra

What’s a Soft Black Girl moment without a little glam and a whole lotta vibe? Meet Pose It Up, CLT, @poseitupclt the Black, woman-owned Photo Booth + guest experience curator that takes events beyond the booth. From corporate activations to upscale events, Kenitra and her team turn moments into photo magic with experiences that are as dope as they are unforgettable. We’re hyped to have Pose It Up, CLT as a sponsor—get ready to strike a pose and make some memories!

What’s a Soft Black Girl moment without a little glam and a whole lotta vibe? Meet Pose It Up, CLT, @poseitupclt the Black, woman-owned Photo Booth + guest experience curator that takes events beyond the booth. From corporate activations to upscale events, Kenitra and her team turn moments into photo magic with experiences that are as dope as they are unforgettable. We’re hyped to have Pose It Up, CLT as a sponsor—get ready to strike a pose and make some memories!

POV: You & your girls pulling up to the Soft Black Girl Club Galentines event like…

POV: You & your girls pulling up to the Soft Black Girl Club Galentines event like…

Yesterday was a true soft life moment! ✨ We gathered in all shades of melanin, breaking bread, pouring into each other, and welcoming our newest Soft Babes into the Soft Black Girl Club. From the laughter to the deep conversations, it was a reminder that Black women deserve spaces where softness, joy, and sisterhood thrive.

To our new members—welcome home! This isn’t just a club; it’s a movement, a sanctuary, and a reminder that you are worthy of ease, love, and community. We’re so excited for this journey with you!

And what better way to kick off Black History Month than by celebrating the beauty, resilience, and power of Black women together? We are history in the making.

Drop 🤎 in the comments if you’re here for Black women embracing their softness this year! #SoftBlackGirlClub #ReclaimingSoftness #BlackHistoryMonth #BlackGirlJoy #MelaninMagic

Yesterday was a true soft life moment! ✨ We gathered in all shades of melanin, breaking bread, pouring into each other, and welcoming our newest Soft Babes into the Soft Black Girl Club. From the laughter to the deep conversations, it was a reminder that Black women deserve spaces where softness, joy, and sisterhood thrive.

To our new members—welcome home! This isn’t just a club; it’s a movement, a sanctuary, and a reminder that you are worthy of ease, love, and community. We’re so excited for this journey with you!

And what better way to kick off Black History Month than by celebrating the beauty, resilience, and power of Black women together? We are history in the making.

Drop 🤎 in the comments if you’re here for Black women embracing their softness this year! #SoftBlackGirlClub #ReclaimingSoftness #BlackHistoryMonth #BlackGirlJoy #MelaninMagic

“We came. We saw. We SMASHED those buzzers! 💥🎤”

The Soft Babe Game Show Battle at @gameshowbattlerooms_charlotte in Ballantyne was a WHOLE vibe! From buzzer-smashing showdowns to screaming answers (even when it wasn’t our turn 😆), we brought the energy, the laughs, and just the right amount of competitive spirit! 🏆✨

A HUGE shoutout to our dynamic duo hosts, Rell & Big Mama, for keeping us hyped all night! And of course, big love to @gameshowbattlerooms_charlotte for hosting the Soft Black Girl Club—y’all might as well reserve our spot for round two because we’re READY for another battle ASAP! 😏🔥

Tag your game night crew and let’s run it back! Who’s in for the rematch?! 🎟️💖 #SoftBabesTakeGameNight #GameShowQueens #SBGC #PressTheBuzzerSis

“We came. We saw. We SMASHED those buzzers! 💥🎤”

The Soft Babe Game Show Battle at @gameshowbattlerooms_charlotte in Ballantyne was a WHOLE vibe! From buzzer-smashing showdowns to screaming answers (even when it wasn’t our turn 😆), we brought the energy, the laughs, and just the right amount of competitive spirit! 🏆✨

A HUGE shoutout to our dynamic duo hosts, Rell & Big Mama, for keeping us hyped all night! And of course, big love to @gameshowbattlerooms_charlotte for hosting the Soft Black Girl Club—y’all might as well reserve our spot for round two because we’re READY for another battle ASAP! 😏🔥

Tag your game night crew and let’s run it back! Who’s in for the rematch?! 🎟️💖 #SoftBabesTakeGameNight #GameShowQueens #SBGC #PressTheBuzzerSis

🎟️✨ TODAY ONLY: Exclusive Discount Alert! ✨🎟️

Sis, don’t wait! Swipe to the second slide for a special discount code to grab your ticket to The Girls Room at a lower price—but it’s only valid TODAY! ⏳💖 Link in Bio!

Tag your friends, share the code, and lock in your spot NOW before this deal disappears! 💃🏾🔥

#TheGirlsRoom #GalentinesVibes #LimitedTimeOffer #GrabYourTickets

🎟️✨ TODAY ONLY: Exclusive Discount Alert! ✨🎟️

Sis, don’t wait! Swipe to the second slide for a special discount code to grab your ticket to The Girls Room at a lower price—but it’s only valid TODAY! ⏳💖 Link in Bio!

Tag your friends, share the code, and lock in your spot NOW before this deal disappears! 💃🏾🔥

#TheGirlsRoom #GalentinesVibes #LimitedTimeOffer #GrabYourTickets

🚗💖 Ride in Style & Safety! 💖🚗

We’re excited to announce Just Her Rideshare (@justherride) as the official rideshare partner for The Girls Room on February 22nd! ✨

No need to worry about parking or finding a ride—Just Her Rideshare has you covered with safe, reliable, and women-centered transportation. Book your ride ahead so it’s waiting for you when you’re ready to go!

🎟 Grab your tickets now in our bio and secure your ride in advance—because the only thing you should be thinking about is having the best time! 💃🏾

#JustHerRideshare #TheGirlsRoom #SafeRidesForWomen #GalentinesVibes

🚗💖 Ride in Style & Safety! 💖🚗

We’re excited to announce Just Her Rideshare (@justherride) as the official rideshare partner for The Girls Room on February 22nd! ✨

No need to worry about parking or finding a ride—Just Her Rideshare has you covered with safe, reliable, and women-centered transportation. Book your ride ahead so it’s waiting for you when you’re ready to go!

🎟 Grab your tickets now in our bio and secure your ride in advance—because the only thing you should be thinking about is having the best time! 💃🏾

#JustHerRideshare #TheGirlsRoom #SafeRidesForWomen #GalentinesVibes

✨ OFFICIAL SPONSOR ALERT! ✨ We’re so excited to have @xzood_sleepwear as the official sponsor for our Galentine’s Event on February 22nd! 💕 And to celebrate, we’re giving you an exclusive way to save on your ticket!

💖 HOW IT WORKS: 💖
1️⃣ Purchase your pajamas from Xzood Sleepwear and use code SBGC15 at checkout for a special discount.
2️⃣ DM us your proof of purchase, and we’ll send you an exclusive discount code for your Galentine’s event ticket!

And the best part? Xzood Sleepwear will be at the event, so you can shop even more of her luxe & cozy sleepwear in person!

Don’t wait—grab your pajamas now, secure your ticket, and let’s get ready for the ultimate night of sisterhood, self-care, and soft vibes! 🎀✨ #SBGC #XzoodSleepwear #GalentinesVibes #SoftLife #Galentines

✨ OFFICIAL SPONSOR ALERT! ✨ We’re so excited to have @xzood_sleepwear as the official sponsor for our Galentine’s Event on February 22nd! 💕 And to celebrate, we’re giving you an exclusive way to save on your ticket!

💖 HOW IT WORKS: 💖
1️⃣ Purchase your pajamas from Xzood Sleepwear and use code SBGC15 at checkout for a special discount.
2️⃣ DM us your proof of purchase, and we’ll send you an exclusive discount code for your Galentine’s event ticket!

And the best part? Xzood Sleepwear will be at the event, so you can shop even more of her luxe & cozy sleepwear in person!

Don’t wait—grab your pajamas now, secure your ticket, and let’s get ready for the ultimate night of sisterhood, self-care, and soft vibes! 🎀✨ #SBGC #XzoodSleepwear #GalentinesVibes #SoftLife #Galentines

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